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The Fog
After the fire comes the smoke. Thick, disorienting, and hard to breathe through.
The Fog is the in-between space: numbness, confusion, and the slow piecing together of what really happened.
It didn’t happen in a tidy order. Some days were foggy even while I was creating or coming home to myself.
These are the writings where clarity was still forming and the path forward was hidden in shadow.


Tidal Wave in a Loading Zone
We picked these berries together last summer. It was a good day. And yet, being in a loading zone behind him a year later, I realized how heavy even the sweet moments can become. I saw him. I saw everything. And it all came rushing back.

Katherine Tatsuda
Aug 42 min read


Joy and Peace Walked Beside of Me
This weekend was filled with simple things—family, sunflowers, blueberry buckets—
and somewhere in the middle of it,
Peace and Joy walked beside me again.

Katherine Tatsuda
Aug 31 min read


I Loved His Dogs, Especially One.
I miss my sweet, grumpy boy.

Katherine Tatsuda
Jul 301 min read


He Never Had To Lie
I loved him and his dogs so deeply. It didn't have to be this way....

Katherine Tatsuda
Jul 301 min read




My Body Didn't Get the Memo
What happens when your body still craves the person who hurt you? This raw piece explores the somatic aftermath of a trauma bond and how the body remembers touch, even when the mind knows the truth.

Katherine Tatsuda
Jul 291 min read


When His Dog Died | Post-Breakup Grief
When his dog died, I didn’t reach out. But I felt it. Grief doesn’t care about no contact. It just arrives. Quiet, uninvited, and honest.

Katherine Tatsuda
Jul 262 min read


What Took Me So Long | Healing After a Toxic Relationship
I stayed because hope is a drug and I overdosed on the dream. But one day,
the ache was louder than the hope. And I chose breath. I chose self. I chose truth.

Katherine Tatsuda
Jul 231 min read


Through the Void | The Weird In-Between of Emotional Healing
Not every part of healing is clear or beautiful. Sometimes it’s foggy. Quiet. Lonely. This is about walking through the void, the weird in-between of grief, growth, and becoming. One breath, one step at a time

Katherine Tatsuda
Jul 152 min read
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